How Does a Nanny Share Actually Work? A Quick Guide for Busy Parents

If you’ve been searching for, “how does a nanny share actually work?” This guide is for you. For many professional families, a nanny share offers the best balance of personalized care and budget-conscious childcare.

Here’s what you need to know:

What Is a Nanny Share?

A nanny share is when two families hire one nanny to care for their children at the same time, usually in one family’s home or rotating between homes. The nanny receives a higher hourly wage than working for a single family, but each household pays less than they would for a private nanny.

How the Pay Works:

In a typical nanny share, each family pays about two-thirds of the nanny’s standard rate.

👉 Example: If a nanny charges $25/hour for one child, then:

• Each family pays approximately $16.67/hour

• The nanny earns $33.34/hour total, reflecting the increased responsibility of caring for multiple children.

This model helps families save significantly without compromising on quality care — and nannies are fairly compensated for the added complexity.

Each Family Is a Separate Employer

This is an important legal and financial point Each family is considered a separate employer. That means:

• You’re each responsible for employment taxes, payroll, and proper documentation.

• It’s important to use a nanny tax service or payroll provider to stay compliant.

• Families should coordinate but not combine employment.

Why Families Love Nanny Shares:

• Lower cost than solo care

• More personalized than daycare

• Kids enjoy social interaction

• Flexible scheduling and routines

Things to Keep in Mind

• ✅ Family Compatibility: Similar values, routines, and communication styles are essential.

• ✅ Nanny Agreement: Make sure your nanny is comfortable with the setup and paid accordingly.

• ✅ Written Contracts: Include pay, guaranteed hours, location, sick days, overtime, vacation and how you'll handle changes.

• ✅ Cost Clarity: Remember, each family pays about two-thirds of the solo rate — not half.

• ✅ Legal Setup: Each family must independently set up payroll and fulfill employer responsibilities.

Considering a nanny share in your neighborhood? We can help you find the right family match and walk you through the setup process — from contracts to compatibility. TEXT: Nanny Share to 843-860-3762. We can get started with the process right away.